Wednesday, October 29, 2014

10-29-14

As of Saturday, all of our possessions are in our new house and the apartment is cleaned.  I'll turn in the keys tomorrow (right after I try to super glue the crack in the stone in front of the fireplace where Abby broke it with her head.)  Here's hoping for most of our security deposit back! 
The more we're in the new place the more I like it. :) 
Before I forget, here's the address:
1726 Midbrook Dr.; Rock Hill, SC 29732
 
Abby and Caleb enjoying the "new" reading chair I found at the ReStore for $50!
 
Tomorrow is the last soccer game of the season (for Micah). He scored two goals this season and has definitely gotten better all around.  I really love going to the game and talking to the parents, but I'm also ready not to have two more nights of our week taken up.  We've made some new friends that we should be able to continue relationships with.
 
Setting up for our first church service a week and a half ago.  (Note the two guys on the ladders fixing the ceiling tiles... and Ben on his phone. :))

 
Beth and Abby working on puzzles:

 
We have a lot of kids in our church. :)

 
Pretty little girl:

I was trying to get a shot of Abby in an outfit a friend passed on to us.  She wasn't too happy that I was taking a picture of her. :)

 
 Caleb giving a thumbs-up to Grandma and Grandpa Kaufman who came to visit us this past weekend.  They got to see both Micah and Caleb play a game.
 
Children's Ministry at the Vineyard... (just kidding; we were trying to keep them occupied as the hours wore on while we set up for church.  How many kids can you fit around a tiny DVD player?)


 
First church service - October 19, 2014:

 
Even superheroes need to express themselves artistically.  (I wish I would have gotten a shot of her from the side - her long eyelashes stuck out through the eyeholes of the batman mask):


 
As part of their memory work this year, Caleb and Micah are learning some irregular verb conjugations.  Each one has a little song and we made up hand motions that help them remember what "verb principle part" it is (infinitive/ present/ past/ present participle/ past participle).  Not that they - or I - understand what that means yet, but someday we will!  Caleb LOVES the "to rise/ to raise" song because of the motion at the end... we put out our thumbs and do a little dance.  Several times we tried to get a picture of Caleb doing the dance with his crooked little thumb sticking out.  This is as close as we got: 

 
Side note:  Caleb's favorite part of school is learning the states and capitals.  He's become a little obsessed.  He does USA puzzle maps over and over and sings his states and capitals song from the moment he wakes up and outlines his map with dry-erase markers multiple times a day.  We've learned 40 of them so far, and Caleb just desperately wants to get to "Juneau, Alaska" which is the last state/capital in his song.  Alaska is now his favorite state. :)  He has a hard time understanding the difference between a city and a state (which I remember Micah being the same way), so he just always merges the capital with the state.  So now he says we live in "Rock Hill, Columbia South Carolina".  Grandma Bender lives in  "Annapolis Maryland."  I think Caleb may be to geography what Micah is to science.
 
Everyone's favorite spot in the house.  Our back yard has trees all around it, and there's a little "Florida room" that looks out to the backyard.  It's very deceiving because it's just a line of trees, and there are houses right behind them, but you would think there was a whole little woods back there. :)

While Wes and Joyce were visiting, we decided to have an impromptu birthday party for Micah.  Ben and I moved everything from the apartment and cleaned all day, got home at 5:30, and then tried to get the party ready.  I noticed the church near us was having a "trunk or treat", so I texted everyone and all the kids put on costumes and went to collect candy.  That bought me a little more time. :)

 
Abby once again was trying to escape the picture:

 
We went to a Civil War battle reenactment at Brattonsville this past Sunday.  It wasn't that great because evidently no one knew how to act.  They just kept shooting off very loud cannons and after half an hour ONE person pretended to get shot.  Carrie leaned over to me and said, "No wonder the war took four years." :)  One interesting thing about watching this in the south: the moderator was definitely very in favor of the confederacy, and blames the reconstruction for everything wrong in the south.  My kids kept referring to the Union as the good guys and asking "When are we going to win?"  I tried to keep them quiet. :)


Brother against brother:

 
On Micah's birthday (Monday), we were going to take a field trip to the Charlotte Nature Museum, but it was unfortunately closed on Mondays, so we went to Discovery Place instead.  Came home, ate at Texas Roadhouse (per his request), and ate cake.

Watching a demonstration at Discovery Place:

Caleb talked this guy's ear off at the aquarium "petting table":



Ben got a new job on Monday too!  We're so excited.  The job at the airport was getting pretty frustrating for Ben.  They had offered him a supervisor position but it would have required him to work evenings and other odd hours, so he had turned it down.  But he was one of the few guys who would work hard and treat people well, so they gave him the hardest job that no one else wanted (on the curb, taking tickets from the customers instead of driving cars) and he often got left there alone even though you need three people to do the job.   There was a lot of disorganization that drove Ben nuts too.  We've wanted him to get a job in Rock Hill, and Ben said Wednesday morning he prayed the whole way to work that God would give him another job, and then again the whole way home.  Wednesday evening we went to small group and right away Mike Zieber says, "Would you be interested in working at Fast Signs?"   YES!  So Mike talked to his boss, who interviewed Ben, and he got the job.  They are transitioning Mike into more of an installation role, and Ben will be taking over Mike's job.  The owner was willing to let Ben work 30 hours instead of 40, and the job is literally less than 5 minutes from our house.  Ben could ride his bike if he wants.  No more getting up at 4 am and driving 45 minutes to work!  The pay is comparable to what he was making at the airport ($12/hr to start out, which is just slightly less than what he's been making lately with tips), and even though he'll be working a few hours more at Fast Signs, he'll be gone less when you figure in the commute. (And keeping more pay when you factor in gas!) Next week will be his last week at the airport.  Yay!

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Christmas Lists

Grandma Bender already wants Christmas lists for the kids.  I keep an on-going list on my phone throughout the year.  (When we're at the store and the kids see something they want, or they play with a certain toy a lot at a friend's house, I write in down for ideas later.)  Since I thought I might like to look back some day at what the kids wanted when they were (almost) 8, 5, and 2 1/2, I'll put it here.  You're welcome Grandma. :)

The boys overlap a lot.  It mostly involves Legos and Superheros. :)  Micah loves science stuff too:

Lego table (I repent, Joyce Kaufman, for telling you "no" to this last year) :)
Magazine subscriptions (Caleb - Highlights?  Micah - a kid's science and/or history magazine... like National Geographic Kids or Discovery Kids or Ask or Ranger Rick)
Magnetic tiles or blocks for Caleb or Abby
A remote control snake for Micah (we saw one at the bookstore)
Optimus Prime Lego set (Caleb)
Lego set of any kind, especially sets based on "The Lego Movie" (Caleb has the "Melting Room" lego set and I'm getting Micah "Bad Cop's Pursuit" for his birthday)
The Lego Movie game for the Wii (Micah)
Electric Snap Circuits (Micah)
Zoobs (Micah or Caleb)
Melissa and Doug doctor costume (Abby or Caleb)
Flash superhero costume (Caleb)
Replacement stand for Micah's telescope.  At our new house, you can actually see stars!
Microscope for Micah
Electric Monopoly for Micah
Ohio state baseball hats for the boys
Movies (for boys): Hotel Transylvania, Mr. Peabody
Gift card to go to plays at the Imaginon in Charlotte or one of the many children's theaters around here
Steve Green's "Hide Them In Your Hearts" CDs (Caleb or Abby)
Gift cards to the Google Play store (so they can buy apps for the Ipad)
Kids' swivel chair from Ikea (probably blue for their room)

For Abby, everytime we are at the bookstore, she goes to this display of "girly things" and loads up on these purses that come with stuffed animals in them.  She loves the "puppy purses".  Also, there was a kitty lunchbox she loved. 
She also LOVES colorful socks.  (She always picks out her Hello Kitty socks)
We discovered "Calico Critters" which I think she would love.  You can see my picture in my last post.  She loves anything cute, little, and especially animals.
A little table for her room (small, two seats)

That's all on my list for now!  Of course, the kids add to that daily :)

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

10-7-14

Caleb's first soccer game.  They line all the kids up for the first half-an-hour to learn skills.  Caleb is the third one from the end here... definitely the shortest.  (We actually measured him on his birthday... he's measuring in a full inch shorter than Micah was at that age.  Poor kid!)

During his second soccer game, Caleb played goalie for a while... and that ended Ben's "undefeated coach" status. :)  Micah's team is still undefeated this season... and was undefeated last season too.  Micah scored a goal at his game last Thursday.
 Caleb's birthday:

Lately, Abby doesn't usually want her picture taken.  However, on Caleb's birthday it was next-to-impossible to get a picture of JUST Caleb.  She kept trying to weasel in.

Aunt Darlene - he loves the Ninja Turtle shirt and Legos!


 
 Wes and Joyce - the Transformer book has been put to good use too!
 
We got him this Batman jacket.  He wore it to homeschool co-op today and wouldn't take it off, even when we played outside in the sun at recess.  It was like 80 degrees.  He was rather sweaty. :)

 
The day after Caleb's birthday, we finally got to visit Myrtle Beach.  We got in around 9 Wednesday evening.  Thursday morning was warm and sunny, so we hit the beach.  There was some light rain off-and-on in the afternoon, so we made use of the hotels indoor pools/hot tubs/kids' splash pad/lazy river.  We all had SO MUCH fun!  Thursday was cooler, so we went to the aquarium to see the sharks.  (And yes, I recorded that as a day of school!)  Micah especially liked it, although I personally think it was a little too expensive for what you get!  We went back to play in the sand in the afternoon for about an hour, then headed home.





 


 
Abby in heaven (she just kept saying "Awww!"):

I'm putting these on Abby's Christmas list.  She loves little creatures.  She carries around two miniature teddy bears in her pockets.


We closed on the house the Monday after we got back from the beach.  I'll have to take pictures of the inside.  We got the power and gas turned on, the trash lined up, and the carpets cleaned.  The carpet's not perfect, but good enough for us to keep!  yay!  Wednesday we started painting, and tackled the hardest two rooms first.  (Abbys' room was BRIGHT red.  It took two coats of primer and then 2 coats of light yellow, plus a few more touch ups.)  And then we painted the "Florida room" trim all white and the walls a bluish-grey.  Also got one bathroom painted, and a wall in the living room.  Our small group is doing a painting party tomorrow night and helping to put down floors in the Florida room and bathrooms.  I'm hoping we can get all the painting done by the end of the weekend.  Of course, we're also having a work day at the YMCA on Saturday to get ready for our first church service the following weekend! 

October is crazy... fixing and moving into a house, trying to do our first "preview" service for the church (although I don't know how many people we'll actually tell about it. :)  We need to work out the kinks first!)  And soccer every Tuesday, Thursday night and Saturday morning.  Is it November yet?? :P